American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation). European men don’t ‘date’ – in the formal way that Americans are used to.The types of dates seen in movies – the formal ask, the fancy dinner and the entire dance that ensues simply doesn’t exist in the European mindset, in fact, the word “dating” isn’t even a part of their lexicon. Unlike American culture, where there’s almost a rite of passage which takes two people from “hooking up” to “seeing each other” to “dating” to “exclusive”, these labels just aren’t a focus or concern for European men. Rather, the mentality is, “I like you, I want to see you, and if it’s enjoyable, let’s keep seeing each other”.As a young, single British guy crossing the Atlantic for a career in the United States, I was extremely curious about the dating life that was in store.After all, I'd watched my fellow countrymen in film and literature charm the hell out of beautiful American women. He was English, witty, slightly bumbling, and had a crooked smile. He was also part of an emerging pattern: He wasn't the first British guy I'd romantically clicked with. When I first moved to Beijing right after graduating from Brown, I never intended to fall for so many English guys.
So, if you hook up with someone (not including one night stands, of course), you’re beholden to them in some way. It’s not a good thing at all.” “British girls are really very sexual, which is surprising when considering the American perspective that us Brits are reserved and excessively polite.But actually, it’s the American woman who tends to take sex more slowly, which is neither good nor bad (depending on the night, of course).” “My mates and I think that certain accents are . So, British wit can often be lost to being too dry for the American palette. For some British men, it takes some getting used to.As would Emma Stone (who is dating Brit Andrew Garfield).Or how about Jennifer Lawrence (and her Englishman Nicholas Hoult)?